Joe Alwyn breaks silence on Taylor Swift breakup: “If you let it in, you’re f*cked”
In a rare interview, Joe Alwyn reflects on his past relationship with Taylor Swift, the public's intense scrutiny, and how he stayed grounded despite the noise around him.

Joe Alwyn, an English actor best known for his performances in films such as "The favourite, Harriet", and "Mary Queen of Scots", has garnered a reputation for his sensitive and vulnerable portrayals on screen. Despite his successful career in Hollywood, much of the public's focus has been on his high-profile relationship with pop sensation Taylor Swift, which lasted for six years and was often a subject in her music.
After their split in 2023, which was heavily referenced in Swift's album "The Tortured poet's department", Alwyn has remained largely quiet about the relationship. However, in a recent interview with The Guardian, the actor spoke candidly about this time with Swift, his perspective on public life, and how he managed to keep himself grounded amidst the chaos surrounding his personal life.
Joe Alwyn break his silence on Taylor Swift split
Opening up for the first time about his relationship with the American singer-songwriter, Alwyn spoke to The Guardian in a recent interview.
He shared: "I've just try to focus on what I can control," he said. "From the start, I've focused on what matters to me: family, friends, work, and the like. The external noise is something I've learned to ignore. If you don't, and if you let it in and allow it to affect you, you're living from the outside in. And then you're pretty f*cked."
He added, "It's exhausting, but I have great family and friends and real things in my life. Those are the things that keep me grounded." Alwyn further emphasized, " We're talking about something that happened a while ago, so it's in the past for me. That's how I feel about it."
Who is Joe Alwyn, associated with Taylor Swift?
The English actor has gained recognition for his sensitive and vulnerable performances, with director Ang Lee highlighting his unique qualities.
However, for many, Alwyn is most frequently associated with his past relationship with Taylor Swift, a connection that has often been referenced in her music.
Alwyn and Swift are said to have started dating in 2017, with their relationship lasting six years before they parted ways in 2023. The breakup is prominently featured in Swift's latest album, The Tortured Poet's Department.